I really thought I was bulletproof to unsafe men on dating sites in 2020. Because I had prepared myself by reading two dating safety books. One was Love Smart by Dr. Phil McGraw. The other was Steve Harvey's, Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man . So I was feeling confident because then I wrote the strong profile. I established my boundaries. I talked about what the type of relationship I wanted to have. I was ready with Steve's suggested questions. I spelled out behaviors that were my deal-breakers. And still 3 unsafe men contacted me. What. The. HELL? The overall answer is unsafe people don't see themselves as unsafe. And as a good friend told me, "Some people laugh at personal boundaries. Oh, you have boundaries? Those are cute. But, I don't think so." Two of the men were obviously unsafe. They called me names and harassed me because I didn't want to engage in conversation. I solved that by blocking them right away. O.K. But why didn
Hi, I'm Jennifer and I'm an advocate for dating safety. This blog will be packed with information to help keep you safe if you're going to use the dating apps.